We are naturally loving and caring beings. It is understandable that we would be interested in others' well-being. Most times we are so interested in others that we neglect our own happiness, our own well-being, our own needs and wants. Some nucklehead told us that it's selfish to focus on yourself. I'm not of that mindset anymore. I now know being interested in my own health, wealth, happiness, relationship with Spirit and self is LOVING. The truth is that everybody has the same access to LIFE and SPIRIT. They will find their way without you. That's is hard to stomach because the ego thinks it can save people. No one needs saving. You can't be of service to anyone UNTIL YOU LEARN TO BE OF SERVICE TO YOURSELF FIRST! Be interested in who you are, the rest will work itself out.